I had a dream that I was at a family member’s house but I don’t know whose house it was. A girl named jasmine was in the dream that I went to school with but she wasn’t fully there physically but she came across my mind in the dream. I met a girl that was super friendly and I loved her personality and she offered me an alcoholic shot to drink and I said I was pregnant and declined it and she said the amount of tequila wouldn’t affect the baby at all. Because it was such a small amount, I drunk it. We were in the backyard when that happened and no one else was around. She left and then I was alone and started wondering in the backyard. I jumped down off the wooden steps and then climbed back up when I saw another girl coming. I can’t really remember how our conversation started but she was okay at first and then all of a sudden she started accusing me of things I didn’t do in my past and then another one of her family members, which was a guy came in the picture and started accusing me as well. They tried so hard to take my phone from me to prove things but I didn’t let them. The girl wanted to fight me and I kept denying the things I didn’t do to them. One of my exes were their family member but I didn’t know who it was. They kept bringing up certain things a guy use to say from my past that I got accused for and more of their family members came in the doorway where we were but they didn’t help or diffuse the situation. Then, i noticed my cousin, Connie in the room and she talked to them and told them how I’m suppose to be very calm in this time due to my spiritual journey and I’m pregnant. The girl that wanted to fight me was messing with Connie’s hair as she was talking but Connie didn’t let that bother her. Connie understood she was drinking alcohol that night. After Connie was done talking, somehow the girl that wanted to fight me kept accusing me still of things and her cousin which was the guy that was accusing me as well. The girl made a comment and said, if you didn’t do it, you wouldn’t be so emotional about. I raised my voice and said, “if someone was shaking you and accusing you, you would be mad too”. She said, “and I bet you have a knife too”. I denied it at first but remembered in that moment that my current husband gave me a knife disguised as a pen was in my purse so I said, “I do have a knife but I don’t have it on me right now”. We ended up leaving a short while after that but I noticed as I was walking out, my phone was gone in my pocket. I went back to the room and the girl and her cousin had it and was going through it and they were on my baby tracking app when I walked in and I made it a point to stay calm and said, “I just wanted to have a great time with my family and y’all ruined it” and then she gave the phone back to me. I left and continued to say that as I was leaving and then I woke up.
This dream could indicate feelings of vulnerability and defenselessness in your waking life. The setting in the dream -- at a family member's house but not knowing whose house it was -- may suggest feelings of uncertainty or lack of control in your personal life. The appearance of a girl named Jasmine from your past could symbolize memories or issues from your past resurfacing.
The friendly girl offering you an alcoholic shot when you said you were pregnant may represent temptations or conflicts between desire and responsibility. Drinking the shot despite being pregnant could reflect inner conflict about succumbing to pressures despite knowing it could have negative consequences.
The confrontation with the accusing girl and her family members may symbolize feelings of being unjustly judged or criticized in your waking life. The mention of past accusations and the presence of an ex could point to unresolved issues or guilt from past relationships.
Your cousin Connie stepping in and advocating for your calmness and spiritual journey could represent a desire for support and understanding from your loved ones during difficult times. The references to your pregnancy in the dream may highlight a need for protection and nurturing of your emotional well-being.
The theme of losing your phone and feeling invaded or violated when others go through it could symbolize a fear of privacy invasion or feeling exposed and vulnerable in your waking life.
Overall, this dream suggests a mix of internal conflicts, feelings of vulnerability, and a need for emotional support and protection. It may be helpful to reflect on any unresolved issues from your past, your current challenges, and your need for support to address and navigate through these emotions.